54 Self Reliant Living Tips

54 Self Reliant Living Tips

Self reliant living, in these modern times, might seem like an impossible task.  But in “54 Self Reliant Living Tips”, you’ll discover big and small ways and ideas to promote sustainability in your life and your home…no matter where you live!  

Why be Self Reliant?

Creating more sustainability and self-reliance in your life brings freedom from unfulfilling jobs, stress and debt.  By becoming self-reliant, we gain confidence and freedom that we can, indeed, provide quite a bit for ourselves! 

Where to begin to become more self reliant in our lives?  

take inventory of what you have to be self sufficient

Self Reliance Tips and Ideas

1.  Take Inventory 

What do I mean by “take inventory”? 

What I mean is to take a look around at what you have access to where you live. 

It doesn’t matter if you live in the city or the country, or somewhere in between, you can be more self reliant. 

So, if you live in an apartment, do you have a south-facing window where you could grow some herbs and veggies? 


Apartment Homesteading


Could you bike to work or to shop and eliminate the need for your car? 

Do you have a balcony to grow a container garden?  How about a community garden? 

Perhaps an unused wall to put a fish tank and raise your own fish to eat and sell? 

There are plenty of sustainable living habits at home that everyone can implement!


Maybe you don’t have any of that, but you’re a great seamstress and have a sewing machine

Or maybe you’re great at web design.  You could trade and barter for what you need! 

The key here is what you have access to and your skill set.  You have more talent than you give yourself credit for!

How to Be Self-Sufficient in an Apartment


indoor self reliant container garden

2.  Self Reliance Begins with Growing Food

You don’t need a large property to grow some of your own food, this is a real misconception. 

How to Start an Easy Container Vegetable Garden

Our grandparents grew food in windows and in their landscaping as a regular habit.  It’s not difficult to grow vegetables on your balcony in a raised garden box!  Many towns offer community gardens!  As you take inventory of where you live, remember that all you need is some dirt, water and light.  The conditions do not have to be ideal or perfect.  Just start!

How to Grow a Weed-Free Garden


home canned tomatoes

The Self Reliant Home

3.   Learn to Can and Freeze 

Preserving food is a skill set that takes time, so be patient with yourself and start from the beginning. 

Proper tools and supplies are very important and will set you back a few dollars. 

However, once you own a canner, jars and supplies, you have a critical skill for being more sustainable!  YOU can preserve food!

Just exactly how do you learn to can? 

I was fortunate enough to live next door to an older lady years ago who was willing to come over and sit in my kitchen to teach me.  She didn’t walk well, but was very excited that a younger woman was interested in canning. 

How to Freeze Cantaloupe

Reach out and ask, you never know who might be thrilled to teach you.   Your local extension office is another place to call for canning classes.  YouTube is always good, too!  Don’t get discouraged, keep working at being more self reliant every day!

How to Can Tomatoes


rolling pin rolling out dough

4.  Cook from Scratch 

Self-reliant living in the home begins in the kitchen, with planned meals made from scratch.  

Homemade meals are not only healthier, with more real food ingredients and preservative-free, but they are much more cost-effective!

I didn’t learn to cook growing up.  If you were lucky enough to learn how to cook from a mother or aunt, good for you, rock on!  You will already know how to do this, just eliminate the processed food from your kitchen and crack open the cookbooks!

For those of you who don’t have a clue (like me), I will first recommend that you find that person in your life who loves to cook! 

They would be the very best person to get you cooking and teach you some basics.  I’ve heard women tell me that they learned to cook from cooking shows, which could be a good thing. 

Of course, YouTube has plenty of videos about how to cook.  Libraries and extension offices are another option, too.  Remember that cooking is an art and takes time to perfect, even years.  Don’t get discouraged and don’t be hard on yourself.  Start with simple things and you’ll be amazed at how fast you learn!

Consider investing in good quality cookware that will perform well for you and last for many years.

self reliant food supply

5.  Create a Well-Stocked Working Pantry

Keeping a stocked pantry is one of the most sustainable living practices you can implement! 

If I don’t have time to go to the grocery, I always have the staples I need on hand to make a meal. 

A working pantry will keep you from eating out as well! 

When you begin growing some of your own food, you’ll be doing more canning and freezing. 

This is one way to make your pantry grow! 

Another is to catch things that you use every day on sale, and buy a few extra. 


We’re not talking about doing anything crazy like buying a truckload. 

Just begin to buy one extra of the staples your family eats every day, when you can afford to.

How to Stock Your First Pantry on the Cheap

49 Steps to More Self-Sufficient Living


6.  Invest in Good Cookware

Self-sufficiency means buying the best quality you can afford and keeping it for a long time.

However, there are a few things in life that you should spend good money on, because they are so important to your health and well-being. 

One of them is good cookware.  Please, for the love of all things good, please don’t cook on cheap aluminum cookware! There are so many health risks with aluminum!

Save up if you have to and invest in good quality stainless steel pots and pans, even baking sheets.  Cast iron is also a good option, but if you’re starting from the beginning, go with stainless steel.  Buy one piece at a time if you have to.  I still have a set from 17 years ago that I bought new, and it’s barely worn at all.  It’s an investment!

eat leftovers to prevent food waste

7.  Increase Sustainability by Making Use of All Leftovers to Reduce Food Waste

Did you know that over 40% of our food goes to waste?  That’s almost half!  Learning to manage and serve your leftovers will save you a ton of money on feeding your family and to live more sustainably.

46 Frugal and Sustainable Living Tips

hens eating out of a bowl

8.  Keep a Few Chickens for a Sustainable Food Source

“Back in the day”, everyone had a few chickens – it was very common and just part of a self-sufficient life.

Things have changed with regard to backyard chickens! 

Many cities and townships are allowing 4 hens to be kept in city lots!  BackyardChickens.com has a great link to see if you are able to keep chickens, or how to change the ordinances in your area.  With 4 hens, you’ll have about 4 eggs per day, how awesome would that be??  

Check out my list of chicken essentials for your new flock!

How to Raise Baby Chicks


homemade rolls

9.  Make Bread 

Bread making is a natural part of sustainable living.

You can make a great loaf of bread for less than 25 cents!  This is a small change to be more sustainable but it makes a huge difference!

With just a few supplies like:

Bread pans

Yeast (You want THIS kind!)





…you can be on your way to fresh bread!

Breadmaking isn’t that hard, once you get the hang of it.  If I can do it, YOU can do it!  Here’s “How to Make Easy Homemade Bread“!


self reliant gardening

10.  Grow a Self Reliant Garden 

Let me differentiate between “growing food” and “learning how to garden”. 

How to Grow Your First Garden

Learning how to garden encompasses composting, mulching, companion planting, etc., truly understanding what’s happening in your soil and how to improve it. 

Once again, this takes years to learn and understand, but start.


11.   Eat Sustainably by Eating What’s in Season

Eating seasonally doesn’t come naturally for us. 

But eating seasonally is one of the best ways to be sustainable with our food!

We are so used to eating food that’s been shipped from all over the world, most of us don’t even know what’s in season where we live.   

There are some great books that will not only educate you as to what food grows in your season, but have awesome recipes for them while they’re fresh! 

Food that is “in season” always costs less at the store and is often advertised as the loss leader on the front of that week’s ad.  This is also an excellent opportunity to stock up on what you love to eat and take it home to can or freeze!  Talk about easy sustainability!!!

See that pantry growing?

Save Money on Groceries by Taking Advantage of Loss Leaders

sustainable gardening with edible perennials

12.  Invest in Edible Perennials 

Anyone hoping to grow food sustainably will understand the importance of edible perennials.

I love my edible perennials

They come back every year without fail!  If you have a corner anywhere where you can plant some asparagus, rhubarb, blueberries or some raspberry canes, it will be totally worth it!  Here’s more about edible perennials and why they’re so important to a sustainable food supply!

blueberry plant

13.   Plant Fruit Trees and Vines for Self Reliance

Whatever this looks like for you and your situation is fine, just do something. 

If you live in the city, you can grow dwarf trees in pots.  Dwarf trees work nicely in the suburbs as well! 

Fruit trees take about 5-7 years to produce fruit, depending upon what type you get, so this is an exercise in patience.  But, once you have your tree(s) planted, you can go on to other things while you wait. 

Also, please don’t waste your money on cheap trees, here’s where I buy all of my fruit trees.  I’ve pulled up more dead trees that I didn’t pay much for, not worth the time spent!

How to Grow Fruit Trees Organically


pots of rosemary, thyme and basil

14.  Learn About and Grow your Own Herbs  

Learning about herbs, how they work and what they can do for you and your family is totally worth the time and money!  Having fresh herbs in your kitchen to cook with is another small change that can make you more sustainable!

I’ve studied herbalism for many years now and still find it fascinating!  

How to Grow an Herb Garden


15.  Learn to Dehydrate Food 

I really love dehydrating, especially in the summer!  There always seems to be a bumper crop of something, more than I can freeze or can at one time.  I use my Excalibur dehydrator all the time and has been one of my best kitchen investments.

11 Ways to Use the Excalibur Dehydrator

foraging for self reliance

16.  Make a Habit of Foraging   

The thought of foraging might seem a little weird to you, but let me tell you, it’s amazing!  You will be so delighted once you realize how many wonderful, organic foods are available for free!

If you’ve never foraged before, may I recommend a couple of excellent books to get you started?


Backyard Foraging: 65 Familiar Plants You Didn’t Know You Could Eat is a great place to begin learning about foraging!

The Forager’s Harvest: A Guide to Identifying, Harvesting and Preparing Edible Wild Plants is another book that I own and use frequently!

Learning to recognize just a handful of wild edibles in your neck of the woods is so empowering!  

What You Need to Know about Foraging


17.  Hunting and Fishing

I’ll admit, this is an area I really want to grow in.  I’m so envious when it’s deer season around here!   Venison is such wonderful meat! 

Fishing is awesome too, but this is going to depend on where you live and what you have access to. 

Here’s where another hunter or fisherman would be the best teacher!  I hope to tag along with my father-in-law to go deer hunting one of these days. 

Most children were taught how to hunt and fish as a matter of survival just a couple of generations ago – how did we get away from that?  

We can bring those skills back, and teach our children how to hunt for food.  Your state’s “Park and Recreation” department or “Division of Wildlife” should prove to be helpful in finding classes on hunting.

growing lettuce with aquaponics

18.  Consider Aquaponics

I’ve read about people who grow Tilapia using large fish tanks in their apartments, and then sell to local restaurants.  What a cool way to sustain yourself and make some income as well.  Hopefully, this is will get your wheels turning to check out the hidden potential of aquaponics!


baby goats running in pasture

19.  Raise Livestock 

Raising livestock is can be an effective way of providing food for yourself and your family.   Be careful and do your research before you buy, however, rabbits and chickens would be where I would begin if you have no prior knowledge or experience with livestock.  I would even go so far as to suggest shadowing someone who works with the animal you would like to raise.  Here I discuss my decision to “rent” 2 alpacas for a year and what I learned.  Extension offices and 4H groups are excellent ways to learn about livestock!


20.  Grow Mushrooms 

After years of looking for morels in our woods with no success, I finally decided to purchase some spores and grow my own!  I’m excited for Spring to see if they grew this year. 

Nonetheless, mushrooms can either be foraged or grown.  They can even be grown on a kitchen counter!  This is just one more way to provide food for yourself!  There’s income potential here as well, chefs LOVE fresh mushrooms.  Find a restaurant to sell to and grow for! (I’ve got a monstrous Reishi growing right now!)

85 Ways to Make Money Homesteading

bartering skills

21.  Learn to Trade and Barter for What You Need 

Believe it or not, there was a time when bartering for goods and services was more common than paying with paper money. 

During the Great Depression, when few people had money, trading and bartering were common. 

Funny thing is that it’s back in style! 

I’m reading on financial websites that even physicians have been known to trade medical advice for web design and home repair.  Of course, you’ve got to find folks with the same mindset.  This is something I’m always on the lookout for.  Don’t be afraid to put it out there, what do you have to lose?


22.   Find ways to make income from home

Let me lay some truth on you here.  There are people who think that if you can produce most of your own food, you won’t need money anymore. 

NOT true. 

Even if you are spiffy enough to create your own energy and fuel, you’re still going to need some income.  Fortunately, there are zillions of ways to create income at home these days.  Here’s a website that I just love and have referred my adult kids to many times. 

Tons of ideas out there, find something that you enjoy and can make some money at!

85 Ways to Make Money Homesteading – The Ultimate List

turn down thermostat to save money

23.  Reduce Energy Consumption 

Reducing your energy needs is a critical first step to reducing your dependence on the grid! 

It’s also the first step before considering any type of alternative energy.  There is no alternative energy system that will sustain an energy-hungry household.  

Take a look at your meter once a day, at about the same time, for a month.  Jot down how many kilowatts you’re using a day.  Note who was home and what was going on that day.  Our usage is always higher on the weekends because the kids are home more, and often have friends over.  Then take steps to reduce your use of energy-hog appliances, like stoves and dryers.  Unplug everything that isn’t being used – it makes a BIG difference, believe me!

How to Save a Bundle on Your Utility Bills


24. Self-Reliance Takes Advantage of Renewable Energy 

This will look different for everyone, depending on where you live and what your budget is. 

If you live in a warmer, southern climate, then solar panels might be a good idea for you! 

Living in Ohio, solar is complicated and expensive.  It’s cloudy here pretty much all winter. 

However, wood-burning stoves make a lot of sense for us, as well as geothermal!   Do some research and see what they can do for you, but ONLY after you’ve trimmed your energy consumption way down!


electrical outlet

25.   Self Reliance Limits Screen Time

We live in such an automated world, ever think about that? 

All the noise of TV’s and devices, refrigerators humming, cars going down the street…I think sometimes that we’re immune to it. 

Then when the power goes out for some reason, we just about lose our minds from the silence! 

Take time to “unplug” voluntarily, and get used to less noise. 

Sit outside and read a ‘real’ book, and leave your phone inside the house. 

Walk your dog and leave the phone at home. 


Let your brain recover and remember what it was like before all of the automation. 

It can be very healing.


26.  Use Peak Light Hours 

In my time studying the Amish, I found something very interesting about them.  They live their lives and do their chores primarily by the sun’s rising and setting. 

Since they don’t use electricity, and because oil lamps are costly, they depend upon the sun for light. 

Amish women would never consider doing their detailed quilting at night, they don’t have the option of turning on a craft light.  They do their quilting during the sunny hours. 

Sustainable living is so much more simple than we realize at times!

The streets of Holmes county are void of Amish folk past sunset because they wouldn’t want to put their horses at risk at night.  There are exceptions I’m sure, but if you ever visit, you’ll see what I mean.  Incorporate these tips in your household and see how much money you save!


27.   Self Reliance uses Renewable Energy

Heating with wood, whether it be with a fireplace, wood stove or outdoor wood furnace, is so crazy sustainable.  I see free wood all over the place, and what excellent exercise to chop and split wood!  Selling wood could be a great side hustle as well.


self reliant laundry

28.  Ditch the Dryer  

Did you know that most of the world doesn’t own a clothes dryer?

Most Europeans don’t have a clothes dryer. Neither do Amish people.  Dryers really aren’t part of a sustainable lifestyle.

Every Amish home has a clothesline out front.  They hang out their clothes very early in the morning, I’ve often wondered if there was some sort of competition among them to see who could get them hung out first!  They even hang them in the winter!

Clothes dryers are extremely hard on clothing!  You know that dryer lint?  THAT’s your clothing!  

Air-drying your clothes, however you choose to do it, will make your clothes last so much longer!

  • Invest in an indoor, drying rack to dry heavy sweaters and delicates.
  • Set up a simple retractable, indoor clothesline.  
  • If you have the room and city ordinances allow, set up an outdoor clothesline!

We have the convenience of indoor as well as outdoor clotheslines, here’s more about how to get started with a clothesline!


self reliant cooking

29.  Use a Solar Oven 

When it’s scalding hot outside, the last thing anyone wants to do is to turn on the oven!  A solar oven harnesses the (free!) rays of the sun to cook your food.  Using renewable energy in your home is just one more way to become more self reliant!

I invested in my solar oven a few years back, and I love it!  The internal temperature was a pleasant surprise and I’ve been able to bake bread, boil water and make dinner, all quite easily.

This is the only one I can recommend.

30.  Invest in Solar Lights for your home 

I love using solar lighting, especially in the summer when we have sun (I’m in Ohio, remember, the cloud capital of the world in the winter)! 

There’s a solar floor lamp by our back door that gathers sun rays during the morning, and then gives off a nice glow all night.  I like to use solar lights outside as well!

I’ve recently installed these motion-solar lights all around the house, eliminating the need for outdoor porch and garage lights to stay on all night.  I just love them!


31.  Cook Outside 

Off-grid cooking is not only part of a self-sufficient lifestyle, but it makes a lot of sense for many people.

Gaining new skills like using a rocket stove or cooking over a propane burner will increase your resilience tremendously!

Whether you use a propane grill or burner, this is a great way to train yourself to be more creative with cooking food!  Pretend the power is out and cook everything for your meal on the grill.  Build a fire and cook over that!  Summer is such a great time to play around with this and have some fun!

rainwater collection

32.  Harvest Rainwater for Self Reliant Living

You can harvest rainwater a number of different ways, but probably the simplest way is with a rain barrel. 

With a couple of supplies and your barrel, you’ll be good to go.  My extension office offered free rain barrels when you attended a class about how to use them!  Rain water is wonderful for your garden and other outside chores!  However, don’t drink it without a purifying system.


33.  Make Your Own Laundry Detergent 

I have made my own laundry detergent with this recipe over a decade now . 

I’ve used it with top loaders and front loaders.  I’ve used it in the city and with a septic tank.  I’ve never, ever had a problem. 

It costs me about $3-4 dollars to make 10 gallons.  I’ve saved thousands over the years! 

This is an easy way to be more self-reliant! 


34.  Self-Reliance Maintains What You Already Own

If you want things to last, you have to take care of them.  Keeping more of what we already own is another way to live sustainably.

Whether it be clothing, shoes, lawnmowers or cars, they all need regular maintenance to keep working the way you want them too.  How many replacement purchases have you made because you didn’t have the time to repair or maintain items?  Yeah, me too. 

This makes a good argument for owning less!

17 Ways to Save BIG Money by Doing Things Yourself


35.  Maintain all household systems like clock-work 

Here again, the best way to keep from spending money on unnecessary repairs is maintenance!  

I have a little routine that I follow around here.  The first of the month is when I do all of the animal wormings, pour enzymes down the septic and change/clean the furnace filters.  That way I know it got done!  Set up your own system to keep things running smoothly.


36.  Make Minimalism part of Your Self Reliant Lifestyle

“The More You Own, the More it Owns You!”.  Not sure who said this, but it sure is the truth.  

Most of us don’t need all of the materials things that fill our homes.

As a matter of fact, most households have at least $300 worth of stuff they could sell on any given day.  Taking a good look through our closets and garages for things that are no longer serving us, and then selling those items will not only free up space, but enable you to start an emergency fund or pay off debt.


buy less on line

37.   The Self-Sufficient Limit their Consumption

We Americans are such consumers. 

We’re groomed from a very early age with cold boxed cereal and toy commercials and work our way up to clothes, houses and cars later in life. 

It feels downright weird to not be in pursuit of purchasing something, that is, until you retrain your thinking. 

One of the best books I’ve ever read on the subject is “Your Money or Your Life” by Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin.  It’s an oldie but a goodie, you can get it from the library.  Joe and Vicki lay out a compelling argument for how we trade minutes and days of our lives for material things… mind-blowing stuff.

self reliance entertains themselves

38.  Self-Reliant People Entertain Themselves

We pay others to entertain us every day, from TV, cable, streaming services, movies and comedy clubs. 

Retail therapy keeps us distracted from our problems while we dig a bigger debt hole for ourselves. 

Staying out of places that cost money is a good first step. 

A good second step is to find ways to enjoy yourself at home without spending money.  Some ideas include inviting friends over for a potluck (everyone brings something to share), game night, cards, crafts, taking a hike or just hanging out!

Learn how to fill your spare time with sustainably-minded activities, like gardening, preserving food, cooking/baking, sewing/knitting or even beekeeping!

self reliance with good habits

39.  Lose those Bad Habits 

I’m not judging, I speak only from a financial point of view. 

Cigarettes, alcohol, vapes, energy drinks, lottery tickets…..they all cost money and give very little back. 

Actually, many of those rob you of your health. 

You can’t work towards self reliance if you don’t feel well or have cancer.



strong body makes you more self reliant

40.  Exercise more 

Whatever this looks like for you, just do it. 

As hard as I work on and around the farm, I still need extra cardio to get my heart rate up. 

I’m at the point in my life where I’m not interested in punishing myself with exercise, so I try to find things I enjoy doing. 

I picked up a nice, used jogging stroller that I plan to walk my granddaughter in this summer, because I will enjoy that. 

Once again, taking care of your health will help you to get to your sustainability goals!

Why Local Food Costs More


41.  Self-Reliance through Good Health Practices

This is the stuff we all know, but rarely practice.  We all know that we should drink 8-10 glasses of water a day, but do we ever do it? 

How about 4-5 servings of fruits and veggies per day?  Do we really make an effort to feed our bodies what it needs or just give it lip service? 

The reason I discuss this is because poor health brings a couple of obstacles to the sustainability-minded person.  Sickness is expensive, just sayin’.  Actually, it’s really expensive…and painful….and keeps you from your goals.  Do some reading about health at your age and stage of life, maybe get a physical and make those changes, whatever they are.

self reliant work ethic

42.  Teach your Children to be Self Reliant with a Strong Work Ethic 

Our children need to see what self-sustaining habits look like, so that they will have the tools they need when they grow up. 

This world doesn’t need any more lazy kids. 

Work ethic, or lack thereof, comes directly from the home and the parents.

How to Teach Teenagers About Money


43.  Create a Self Reliant Spending Plan

Without a working budget and written goals, we would be wandering out there in “Financial Nowhere Land”.  Budgets scare people, I felt that way as well, years ago.  But believe me, there is freedom in having a “spending plan” (your new word for “budget”)!

Sustainability in our finances equates with stability and consistency with our money habits.  Avoiding the “highs and lows” of poorly managed finances is the best way to be and maintain self reliance.

How We Paid Off $100K of Debt in 3 1/2 Years


self reliant housing

44.   Become Debt-Free to Stay Self Reliant

Once you have a working (not perfect) budget or spending plan, you’ll be able to find those extra dollars here and there to pay down debt. 

As you cut expenses and find ways to save money, pay off all of your credit cards and student loans!  It’s not easy, but it can be done with mutual agreement and hard work.  My husband and I dug our way out of a huge debt-load years ago.  I understand the sacrifice it takes, but it’s worth it! 

Financial freedom is worth it!


45.   Self-Reliance Doesn’t Depend on Credit

Debit and credit cards are part of life today, and it’s difficult to avoid them.  

We purchase online frequently and can lose track of what we’ve spent until we see the bill at the end of the month. 

Establishing that budget (#43) will help you to decide ahead of time what expenses will be made that month, so that you don’t spend emotionally or spontaneously.


self reliant financial planning

46.  Plan Your Self-Reliant Future

As we conclude tax season, this is a great time to sit down with a financial advisor/planner. 


So many reasons. 

First, are you paying too much in taxes? 

Are you taking advantage of all investments or other financial instruments available to you? 

Are you invested correctly for the long term? 

While you have all of your paperwork handy, take the time to map out some goals and get some good advice. 

We don’t have the benefit of pensions these days, retirement planning is more critical than ever. 

The best way to find a good financial advisor is to ask your friends/family for referrals.


 47.  Be More Self-Reliant by Purchasing Second Hand

Oh man, do I hate paying retail for anything! 

While there are some things in life that I want to purchase new (mattresses come to mind) but I have saved so much money over my lifetime by not giving into retail. 

A sustainable life includes shopping sustainably.  Don’t replace items that don’t really need to be replaced.  Use what you have, as much as possible. 

I buy used clothes, shoes, cars, equipment, appliances, furniture, etc.  The money you save can go directly to your bottom line and pay off debt!

Use it Up, Wear it Out, Make it Do or Do Without


48.  Shop Quality

This goes for shopping used or new.  When buying new, buy the best you can afford so that it will last you a long time. 

The mattress I sleep on is 17 years old.   We bought a very good quality mattress at the time.  Over the years, I have vacuumed it, steam cleaned and rotated it faithfully.  Let me tell you, that mattress is in pretty darned good shape!  (It’s from Original Mattress Factory).  Keeping what you have and taking care of it increases your ability to be more self-reliant!


self reliance uses the library

 49.  Use the Library to Be More Self-Reliant

Sustainability means that we buy new as little as possible, and re-use what we already have.  Nothing says that better than our libraries!

The library has everything you ever need to know about everything….for free (well, the cost of your tax dollars).  Every magazine you could ever want is there or can be ordered through the inter-library.  There are even e-books now!  The library will not only save you money, but it will educate you for free!  Living sustainably requires a hungry mind, and that hungry mind can be fed well at the library.

Reading and learning are at the heart of sustainability!


 50.  Let Go of Regrets

Negativity can impair our motivation and creativity.  

Part of my self-reliant lifestyle is to let go of my past mistakes and to keep toxic people at bay.


51.  Self-Sufficiency through Healthy Relationships

Negative people can knock the wind right out of us and squash our dreams. 

This can be a really difficult way to live, especially if you want to live a sustainable life.

I can only share from my own experience, but there are people who just don’t belong in my life anymore.  Relationships have a level of sustainability as well, so I choose friends who are with me for the long haul.

This doesn’t mean that I hate anyone, on the contrary, I forgive as quickly as I can.  I will always be kind when I see these people, but I won’t invite them back into my life if they don’t bring a sense of positivity.  The older I’ve got, the more I realize that I am not responsible for anyone else’s happiness but my own (we’re talking about adults here).  However, I am responsible for myself. 

If I’m not living the life I want, that’s my fault.


 52.  Self-Reliance with Self Care 

Anxiety and depression are two of the most prescribed conditions here in the US. 

There are many people who struggle with one or both, and these conditions will hold you back from living life on your terms.  Since no pill will solve all of our problems, this leaves us to sort through the issues that leave us feeling anxious and depressed.  This takes work and time out of your day. 

But again, setting ourselves free from what holds us back from our “best life” is a worthy endeavor.  Talk to your pastor or priest, or make time regularly to chat with an understanding friend over coffee.   Your emotional and mental health are important!

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53.  Self-Sufficiency is Doing What You Love

Do you love to work with animals?  How about teaching children?  Would you enjoy growing more of your own food?  Would you like to fish or even teach people how to fish?  As you get go of what’s holding you back, keep asking yourself what it is that you love to do….and figure out how to do more of it!


 54.  Self-Reliant Living for the Long-Term

We all take life too seriously. 

If you want to be successful at anything for the long term, you’ve got to learn to laugh at yourself (talking to myself here). 

See the joy in the small things. 

Self-sufficiency is a lifestyle, to be sure, but it requires our bodies, minds and hearts to be resilient!  

Laugh more as you improve your skill set, and don’t get in a tizzy when you have failures, because there will be plenty.  Don’t beat yourself up!  I mess things up all the time, and have lots of do-overs.  That’s just the way life is.  We don’t have control over all of life’s circumstances all the time.  With that reality in mind, we have a choice.  We can overreact and have a negative reaction to things or we can just giggle and try again…it’s all going to be ok.  I promise.






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  1. Deborah Davis

    What a comprehensive post full of useful tips on living sustainably! I’m pinning this. All the best, Deborah

    1. Kelly

      Hi Deborah, Thanks so much, I’m glad you liked it!

  2. Vanessa

    Thanks for sharing! The “entertain” yourself suggestion was good, although once you start to be more self-sustainable, I don’t think I will have as much free time anyways. This is a very productive use of time.

  3. Suzanne

    This was a good read! Gardening is such a great hobby. It would be wonderful if more people knew how.

    1. Kelly

      Hi Suzanne! I couldn’t agree more! Thanks for commenting!

  4. Kali

    Hi Kelly! Good stuff! I love the information and the nuggets of knowledge you provide. You’re a very gifted writer. I need to make the time to nurture some gardening habits. You have really inspired me. I would love to meet one day and have a cup of coffee and good conversation.

    1. Kelly

      Hi Kali! I sure miss you! Thank you for your kind words and let’s make sure that coffee happens!

  5. liz

    Great, easy tips for making your life more sustainable! Thanks for sharing on Homestead Blog Hop!

  6. Patricia Salisbury

    Thank you so very much for this article, or post, or whatever the proper, modern term now is. I have lived through most of the times and trends you have described, and I am still struggling with some of these problems. The only change that I would urge you to consider is that you replace “American” with “North American”. I am Canadian, but completely relate to the situations that you so eloquently picture. God bless you and yours, and may He help us to convey this so important message to our children and grandchildren.

    1. Kelly

      Hey there, Patricia! Thanks so much for reading and for your suggestion, I’ll look into that! Take care!

    1. mediavine

      Thanks for reading it, Sandra!

  7. Rita

    Hi Kelly I luv all your info. But most especially your heart wisdom! Words to live by! I’m glad you have found your true niche, I’ve been in and out of but now retiring I pray I have sum umf to do it! Keep on your good work!??

    1. Kelly

      Thanks Rita! Best of luck in your retirement!

  8. Diane

    Fantastic post! We’re transitioning from living in SE Asia – where people make the most of so little- back to the American lifestyle. I don’t want to leave behind the simplicity of life here, but at the same time I’m excited about having some good ol’ American conveniences. This post will be a huge help to our family.

    1. Kelly

      Hey Diane! Wow, you’re in for a big transition! I’m sure your experience in Asia will change the way you see things for a long time! Best to you!

  9. Melissa

    I’m inspired! Thank you for sharing your wisdom. We have only recently started our ‘sustainable’ journey, but I am excited to implement many of your suggestions and am ecstatic to see that I can already check a few off the list! My goal this season is to learn to preserve our garden goodies.

    1. Kelly

      Hey there, Melissa! That’s so awesome! Check out your local extension office for food preservation classes!

  10. Sarah

    Excellent list of things to do to become more sustainable. My family does a number of these already, yet there are plenty we need to work on. I’m excited to see what changes we can make in the coming year to living more sustainably.

    1. Kelly

      Hey Sarah, thanks for stopping by!

  11. Alyson Long

    Love this! We’re working hard on most of these things right now. We’re lucky, or – it’s not luck , we made it this way – my husband, I and the kids are all home all day to work, learn, grow things and improve our way of living. So many people are getting the message, it’s growing.

    1. Kelly

      Hey Alyson, thanks for stopping by! Yes, I agree, it’s a wonderful lifestyle and people ARE catching on!!!

  12. Brittany

    Before you harvest rainwater make sure your state allows it. In texas it’s illegal. Otherwise great list definitely gonna try some of these.

    1. Kelly

      Hey Brittany, I’ve heard that it’s illegal in some states…kind of crazy if you ask me!

    2. Kris

      It is legal to harvest rainwater in Texas. There are several provisions in House Bill 3391 which should be noted, such as the requirement the catchment system being incorporate into the design of the building and the requirement to give a written notice to the municipality.

  13. Nicole

    This is a wonderful post! Thank you for taking the time and the detail to really help people.

  14. Julie

    Thank you so much for this it’s an amazing list

    1. Kelly

      Hi Julie! I’m glad you enjoyed it!

  15. Sage

    I’ve been trying to live more sustainably for the past few years, and this post gave me so many new ideas to try. I recently hired carpet cleaners that use green-certified cleaning solutions. It was nice to find a company I could trust to use natural cleaning methods in my home. Can’t wait to try out these ideas, thanks for sharing!

    1. Kelly Morris

      Hey Sage! Thanks so much for reading! This journey is a process that takes much time and learning, but it’s a journey worth taking!

  16. Sonja

    This post was very comprehensive and full of clear advice and thoughtful points! Thank you for this one!
    BR, Sonja
    Blue Tea Tile

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